The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country’s Foremost Relationship Expert
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NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • Over a million copies sold! “An eminently practical guide to an emotionally intelligent—and long-lasting—marriage.”—Daniel Goleman, author of Emotional Intelligence
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work has revolutionized the way we understand, repair, and strengthen marriages. John Gottman’s unprecedented study of couples over a period of years has allowed him to observe the habits that can make—and break—a marriage. Here is the culmination of that work: the seven principles that guide couples on a path toward a harmonious and long-lasting relationship.
Straightforward yet profound, these principles teach partners new approaches for resolving conflicts, creating new common ground, and achieving greater levels of intimacy. Gottman offers strategies and resources to help couples collaborate more effectively to resolve any problem, whether dealing with issues related to sex, money, religion, work, family, or anything else.
Packed with new exercises and the latest research out of the esteemed Gottman Institute, this revised edition of The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work is the definitive guide for anyone who wants their relationship to attain its highest potential.
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country’s Foremost Relationship Expert
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13 reviews for The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country’s Foremost Relationship Expert
Rated 5 out of 5
Kayla –
Whether you’re married, in a relationship, or single – I highly recommend to all. This book gives you healthy and essential communication skills to understand and receive one another with compassion and acceptance.
Rated 5 out of 5
Latisha Love –
Great book for marriage and relationships desiring marriage. Great tool to use before and during! Has helped with communication and understanding!
Rated 5 out of 5
yella chill –
It is an amazing book. We used for our classroom reading. It not only explains but also offers supportive data, this is not a book of opinion but book of correlations through experimentation. I can relate his principle not just between wife and husband but in general how to communicate to others. Amazing and must read. Thanks to his study I now know some changes I need to make in my communication. However, he states that there will always be expectations when testing like individual differences.
Rated 5 out of 5
Jane in Milwaukee –
Seeing a marriage counselor and he said he uses this book and its tenets all the time because it’s so effective, based on scientific research. I got one each for my husband and myself. We enjoyed doing the exercises at the end of Chapter 4. I read the hopeful parts of the book, the truly practical things couples do to improve and enrich their marriages and, thus, their lives.
Sadly, then I read the chapter on “why couples don’t make it.” Shoot…they mostly apply to us. I analyze and nag too much, my husband is critical and snide all the time and we’ve let our friendship dwindle to low ebb. We’ve been married for over 2 decades and it’s hard to see us change enough and in enough time to avoid divorce. We’re both that miserable.
The beauty of the book is that it provides excellent analysis and descriptions of both success and failure in marriage: literally, the author and all professionals who apply these principles can predict whether or not a couple will be able to resolve their conflicts successfully or not within a very short period of time based on how they treat each other. Certainly, the marriages that can seem destined to failed can be turned around if both spouses embrace the process and are willing to work on THEMSELVES and not so much try to “fix” their spouses. So clearly explained, all problems (and ALL marriages encounter problems…you newlyweds are kidding yourselves if you don’t believe this) can be divided into the Solvable and Unsolvable.
Obviously, by definition, most Solvable Problems can be solved. And it doesn’t have to be that Unsolvable Problems lead inevitably to divorce. Sometimes the problem can’t be changed by either party such as one becoming ill with cancer or diabetes and the other can’t abide having a spouse who is ill. But even having a “mixed marriage” such as 2 conflicting religions can be worked out if they ignore their families’ and friends’ condemnation and agree to adhere to either or both religions–together or separately–and doing the same for children.
Even couples who can’t agree on whether or not to have children or cannot procreate themselves to the sorrow of either or both spouses can be resolved well enough to stay together and be happy. If nothing else, Unsolvable Problems can make the marriage stronger if the parties turn to each other in love and for support instead of turning away from each other in anger or sorrow.
It’s all a matter if you require to get your own way on every issue or allow yourself to build up ginormous resentment by always being the one who caves in to your spouse’s demands, supposedly just to keep the peace. That’s not a peaceful existence.
Right now, I’m not sanguine that it’ll work but my husband and I will both give it the ol’ college try. I’ll keep you posted.
Rated 5 out of 5
Madz –
Dr. John Gottman’s book “Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work” is an insightful and invaluable guide that provides a beacon of hope and practical advice for couples navigating the complexities of marriage.
This book delves deep into the core principles that foster strong and lasting relationships. Dr. Gottman draws upon his extensive research and clinical experience to outline actionable strategies, allowing readers to understand the dynamics within their relationship and cultivate a deeper connection with their partner.
What sets this book apart is its empathetic approach. Dr. Gottman addresses common relationship pitfalls with sensitivity, offering guidance without judgment. His emphasis on communication, emotional intelligence, and understanding the dynamics of conflict resolution provides a roadmap for couples seeking to improve their relationship dynamics.
Each principle outlined in the book is supported by real-life examples and exercises, making it accessible and relatable. The practical nature of the advice allows couples to implement these principles in their daily lives, fostering a more profound sense of understanding and intimacy.
Moreover, the book doesn’t just focus on problem-solving; it also highlights the importance of fostering positive interactions and building a foundation of trust and respect. Dr. Gottman’s emphasis on celebrating love and cherishing the bond between partners resonates throughout the book, inspiring hope and motivation for couples facing challenges.
One of the most compelling aspects of “Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work” is its universal applicability. Regardless of the stage of your relationship, whether you’re newlyweds or have been together for years, the wisdom imparted in this book offers something valuable for everyone.
In conclusion, this book is a treasure trove of wisdom and guidance for couples seeking to strengthen their relationship. Dr. Gottman’s expertise, compassionate approach, and actionable advice make “Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work” an essential read for anyone invested in cultivating a thriving and enduring partnership.
Rated 4 out of 5
Laura C –
It provides great examples and activities for couples A bit long at times, with many examples and anecdotes sometimes similar to each other.
Rated 5 out of 5
KristaBee –
I have learned a lot from this book and so much of it is very helpful
Rated 5 out of 5
Andrea –
livre utile
Rated 5 out of 5
Arailym Pernebay –
Nice and useful
Rated 5 out of 5
Ashley S –
I honestly love this book. It has helped me see things from different perspectives. I love all of the topics it covers, it really helped keep my attention. It’s a well thought out book that will help change things in your marriage if you really try to understand what the author is talking about. The book looks exactly like the picture and I am very pleased overall. Will definitely be recommending this book.
Rated 5 out of 5
Kayla –
the book is amazing and if you are not married to a pathological liar and covert narc, i am sure it can even help couples…easy read and excellent exercises
Rated 5 out of 5
Amazon Customer –
Very straight forward points and a great read whether your relationship is in trouble or not. Definitely beneficial for conflict resolution but you and your spouse must be receptive to change and consistently putting in effort.
Rated 5 out of 5
EL –
Sensible advice grounded in empirical research. I’ve already noticed improvements in my already solid marriage of 27 years. I would recommend this to couples at any stage of their partnership.
Kayla –
Whether you’re married, in a relationship, or single – I highly recommend to all. This book gives you healthy and essential communication skills to understand and receive one another with compassion and acceptance.
Latisha Love –
Great book for marriage and relationships desiring marriage. Great tool to use before and during! Has helped with communication and understanding!
yella chill –
It is an amazing book. We used for our classroom reading. It not only explains but also offers supportive data, this is not a book of opinion but book of correlations through experimentation. I can relate his principle not just between wife and husband but in general how to communicate to others. Amazing and must read. Thanks to his study I now know some changes I need to make in my communication. However, he states that there will always be expectations when testing like individual differences.
Jane in Milwaukee –
Seeing a marriage counselor and he said he uses this book and its tenets all the time because it’s so effective, based on scientific research. I got one each for my husband and myself. We enjoyed doing the exercises at the end of Chapter 4. I read the hopeful parts of the book, the truly practical things couples do to improve and enrich their marriages and, thus, their lives.
Sadly, then I read the chapter on “why couples don’t make it.” Shoot…they mostly apply to us. I analyze and nag too much, my husband is critical and snide all the time and we’ve let our friendship dwindle to low ebb. We’ve been married for over 2 decades and it’s hard to see us change enough and in enough time to avoid divorce. We’re both that miserable.
The beauty of the book is that it provides excellent analysis and descriptions of both success and failure in marriage: literally, the author and all professionals who apply these principles can predict whether or not a couple will be able to resolve their conflicts successfully or not within a very short period of time based on how they treat each other. Certainly, the marriages that can seem destined to failed can be turned around if both spouses embrace the process and are willing to work on THEMSELVES and not so much try to “fix” their spouses. So clearly explained, all problems (and ALL marriages encounter problems…you newlyweds are kidding yourselves if you don’t believe this) can be divided into the Solvable and Unsolvable.
Obviously, by definition, most Solvable Problems can be solved. And it doesn’t have to be that Unsolvable Problems lead inevitably to divorce. Sometimes the problem can’t be changed by either party such as one becoming ill with cancer or diabetes and the other can’t abide having a spouse who is ill. But even having a “mixed marriage” such as 2 conflicting religions can be worked out if they ignore their families’ and friends’ condemnation and agree to adhere to either or both religions–together or separately–and doing the same for children.
Even couples who can’t agree on whether or not to have children or cannot procreate themselves to the sorrow of either or both spouses can be resolved well enough to stay together and be happy. If nothing else, Unsolvable Problems can make the marriage stronger if the parties turn to each other in love and for support instead of turning away from each other in anger or sorrow.
It’s all a matter if you require to get your own way on every issue or allow yourself to build up ginormous resentment by always being the one who caves in to your spouse’s demands, supposedly just to keep the peace. That’s not a peaceful existence.
Right now, I’m not sanguine that it’ll work but my husband and I will both give it the ol’ college try. I’ll keep you posted.
Madz –
Dr. John Gottman’s book “Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work” is an insightful and invaluable guide that provides a beacon of hope and practical advice for couples navigating the complexities of marriage.
This book delves deep into the core principles that foster strong and lasting relationships. Dr. Gottman draws upon his extensive research and clinical experience to outline actionable strategies, allowing readers to understand the dynamics within their relationship and cultivate a deeper connection with their partner.
What sets this book apart is its empathetic approach. Dr. Gottman addresses common relationship pitfalls with sensitivity, offering guidance without judgment. His emphasis on communication, emotional intelligence, and understanding the dynamics of conflict resolution provides a roadmap for couples seeking to improve their relationship dynamics.
Each principle outlined in the book is supported by real-life examples and exercises, making it accessible and relatable. The practical nature of the advice allows couples to implement these principles in their daily lives, fostering a more profound sense of understanding and intimacy.
Moreover, the book doesn’t just focus on problem-solving; it also highlights the importance of fostering positive interactions and building a foundation of trust and respect. Dr. Gottman’s emphasis on celebrating love and cherishing the bond between partners resonates throughout the book, inspiring hope and motivation for couples facing challenges.
One of the most compelling aspects of “Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work” is its universal applicability. Regardless of the stage of your relationship, whether you’re newlyweds or have been together for years, the wisdom imparted in this book offers something valuable for everyone.
In conclusion, this book is a treasure trove of wisdom and guidance for couples seeking to strengthen their relationship. Dr. Gottman’s expertise, compassionate approach, and actionable advice make “Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work” an essential read for anyone invested in cultivating a thriving and enduring partnership.
Laura C –
It provides great examples and activities for couples
A bit long at times, with many examples and anecdotes sometimes similar to each other.
KristaBee –
I have learned a lot from this book and so much of it is very helpful
Andrea –
livre utile
Arailym Pernebay –
Nice and useful
Ashley S –
I honestly love this book. It has helped me see things from different perspectives. I love all of the topics it covers, it really helped keep my attention. It’s a well thought out book that will help change things in your marriage if you really try to understand what the author is talking about. The book looks exactly like the picture and I am very pleased overall. Will definitely be recommending this book.
Kayla –
the book is amazing and if you are not married to a pathological liar and covert narc, i am sure it can even help couples…easy read and excellent exercises
Amazon Customer –
Very straight forward points and a great read whether your relationship is in trouble or not. Definitely beneficial for conflict resolution but you and your spouse must be receptive to change and consistently putting in effort.
EL –
Sensible advice grounded in empirical research. I’ve already noticed improvements in my already solid marriage of 27 years. I would recommend this to couples at any stage of their partnership.