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Know My Name: A Memoir
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Universally acclaimed, rapturously reviewed, winner of the National Book Critics Circle Award for autobiography, and an instant New York Times bestseller, Chanel Miller’s breathtaking memoir “gives readers the privilege of knowing her not just as Emily Doe, but as Chanel Miller the writer, the artist, the survivor, the fighter.” (The Wrap).
“I opened Know My Name with the intention to bear witness to the story of a survivor. Instead, I found myself falling into the hands of one of the great writers and thinkers of our time. Chanel Miller is a philosopher, a cultural critic, a deep observer, a writer’s writer, a true artist. I could not put this phenomenal book down.” –Glennon Doyle, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Love Warrior and Untamed
“Know My Name is a gut-punch, and in the end, somehow, also blessedly hopeful.” –Washington Post
She was known to the world as Emily Doe when she stunned millions with a letter. Brock Turner had been sentenced to just six months in county jail after he was found sexually assaulting her on Stanford’s campus. Her victim impact statement was posted on BuzzFeed, where it instantly went viral–viewed by eleven million people within four days, it was translated globally and read on the floor of Congress; it inspired changes in California law and the recall of the judge in the case. Thousands wrote to say that she had given them the courage to share their own experiences of assault for the first time.
Now she reclaims her identity to tell her story of trauma, transcendence, and the power of words. It was the perfect case, in many ways–there were eyewitnesses, Turner ran away, physical evidence was immediately secured. But her struggles with isolation and shame during the aftermath and the trial reveal the oppression victims face in even the best-case scenarios. Her story illuminates a culture biased to protect perpetrators, indicts a criminal justice system designed to fail the most vulnerable, and, ultimately, shines with the courage required to move through suffering and live a full and beautiful life.
Know My Name will forever transform the way we think about sexual assault, challenging our beliefs about what is acceptable and speaking truth to the tumultuous reality of healing. It also introduces readers to an extraordinary writer, one whose words have already changed our world. Entwining pain, resilience, and humor, this memoir will stand as a modern classic.
Chosen as a BEST BOOK OF 2019 by The New York Times Book Review, The Washington Post, TIME, Elle, Glamour, Parade, Chicago Tribune, Baltimore Sun, BookRiot
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Know My Name: A Memoir
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Rachel –
It seems the only reason this book has had any bad reviews here so far is because it either gives the reader anxiety (which I can understand if you yourself are a victim of abuse) or because it is not suited to an audio format. Neither of these reasons should take away from the fact that this book has been courageously written and is a sobering, inspiring and at times, a humorous read. It gives a fascinating insight into the flaws of the justice system especially against those of abuse and how abuse completely upends not just one life but those surrounded by the event. The book does not inflict hate onto men but it does for me, as a woman, inspire a wider and united belief that gender violence/harassment/abuse is a universal issue that needs to be further addressed. I can’t recommend it enough.
Ebony –
Of you are a human, living on this planet, you should read this book. It is important, and written beautifully even when writing from and through pain.
Christine Liu –
This is such an incredible book that for the first time ever, I wish I could give a book six stars because five isn’t sufficient. Or downgrade all the other ratings I’ve ever given and say, “No, this one. This is the actual five star book.” No other book has ever made me feel so intensely so empathize so completely with my entire being. It infuriated me, empowered me, made me want to clutch the book to my chest and sob for the injustices that victims of sexual assault are made to suffer again and again while our systems, society, and culture protect those who do the assaulting. I wish I could make everyone read this beautiful, luminous, powerful book. It should be required reading for every high school student in the US. It should be required reading for every human being on the planet.
Know My Name is Chanel Miller’s memoir about the night she was sexually assaulted behind a dumpster while attending a fraternity party at Stanford, about waking up in the hospital to medical staff and police telling her only fragments of the hours missing from her memory, about learning how to live her life in the aftermath while the subsequent investigation and trial dragged on for years, about reliving the worst moment of her life while her rapist’s friends, family, and defense team launched assault after assault on her character and her decisions, about fighting to bring about institutional change in the way Stanford handles campus assault. This is a book about trauma, shame, healing, survival, rape culture, class privilege, and what it’s like to be a woman.
In one part of the book, she says that the man who assaulted her will be known as “swimmer turned rapist” while she will be known as “the victim who wrote a book”. Chanel Miller is a brilliant, thoughtful, funny, incandescent human being who has so much strength and compassion and humanity. She is quite possibly one of the most gifted writers of this generation. What happened to her doesn’t define her. She doesn’t need anyone’s pity. She’s going to achieve tremendous, magnificent things with her unforgettable voice, and I feel very lucky that I’m going to get to see it as it happens.
Glady –
I am in awe. Chanel Miller has taken one of the most horrific events anyone might experience and used it to expose the failings of the justice system, the casual way in which responsibility for sexual assault is thrust upon the victim, and the power of love and kindness.
Miller drank too much at a frat party and blacked out. But her dumb behavior should not be – cannot be – is not, the reason Chanel ends up behind a dumpster with her dress pulled up, her panties gone, her legs akimbo. The reason for Miller’s rape solely lies with her attacker, Brock Turner, who was quickly caught by two passing bicyclists. Miller’s account of the hospital exam with all of its indignities is tempered by the gentleness and kindness of those who care for her. Despite their compassion and professionalism, Miller’s experience is gut-wrenching to read. She does not yet know that the horror is just beginning.
Powerfully, Miller exposes the wide-ranging effects, the tentacles of despair, that encircle her, her family, her boyfriend, and her friends. She is most protective of her younger sister, Tiffany, who attended the frat party with her. But the nightmare does not just last a single night. Miller takes a step forward and two back, appears to be healing and accepting and then finds herself unable to get out of bed or keep a job. The trial is often delayed and the publicity is ruthless. As Miller writes, “they [commenters on news articles] seemed angry that I’d made myself vulnerable, more than the fact that he’d acted on my vulnerability.”
Miller effectively takes events from her past and describes their effects on her present self. As a high school student, Miller’s fellow students were part of a suicide cluster. Such clusters are often studied and their foundations sought, but Miller manages to describe the emotional weight of the suicides on the students. It is not a weight that is removed at graduation. Readers will share her horror and terror as she huddles with friends while a school shooter, Elliot Rodger, justifies his murders because women didn’t pay attention to him, didn’t provide him with the sex he believed he deserved. More weight to be carried.
Gradually, Miller realizes she is not alone; unfortunately there are legions of women who share her experience. Here is where Miller shines. Her honest, articulate voice, cracking with pain, gives strength to others.
“When society questions a victim’s reluctance to report, I will be here to remind you that you ask us to sacrifice our sanity to fight outdated structures that were designed to keep us down. Victims do not have the time for this. Victims are also students, teachers, parents, who can’t give up work or education. The average adult can barely find time to renew their license at the DMV.”
“This is not about the victims’ lack of effort. This is about society’s failure to have systems in place in which victims feel there’s a probable chance of achieving safety, justice, and restoration rather than being retraumatized, publicly shamed, psychologically tormented, and verbally mauled.”
We need to take on the pain, the weight, the inequity of the system. We need to be completely intolerant of the jokes, the half-truths, the assumptions. Give this book to your daughters and your sons.
Rosa –
This was am heartbreaking book. I know that the justice system tends to be unjust (see the irony there), but to be able to see it from the POV of a survivor, someone who had to face it head on… unbelievable. We all know that court is not kind to victims, specially sexual assault victims, but to see how one of the them is dragged though the mud, her character defined by that moment, after having been through hell, it’s disgusting. Anyways, this is a book of resilience, a book that inspires people to keep fighting, specifically victims, to achieve the end-goal of justice for the one that wronged them. Miller’s case became so sensational that it managed to actually change the law, through her strength she managed to make the world a little bit of a better place. Don’t be dissuaded though, there’s still a lot to be done.
Laura M –
Chanels way of telling her story is remarkable. It’s honest and it shows very well how difficult life can become, simply because someone else decided to assault you.
Even though she addresses this issue, it’s not about rev
enge or pointing the finger at anyone involved in the process. It is more about making people who haven’t experienced an assault understand how it affects the victim.
A very powerful book!
Liselle Noronha –
One of the most detailed books on the justice system with respect to sexual assault and the events related to it. How it impacts an individual and everyone surrounding them.